I have added your suggestions to the list of how to help a survivor. It is in the post above this one. I am putting a link on my sidebar and on my other blogs so when this page disappears, visitors to this blog can always access it. Feel free to do the same.
If you have any other suggestions, email me or write it in a comment to a blog post. I will add it to the list.
Thank you for your additions to this list. I think it may help a lot of people who wish to know the right things to do or say. And it will help us survivors too. We are speaking out and saying - this is what I need!